Takwimu hizo za kipindi cha miongo miwili kutoka Idara ya Taifa ya Takwimu zinaonyesha watoto wanaozaliwa huongezeka sana wiki 40 (miezi 9) baada ya msimu wa sikukuu.

Hili huenda linatokana na wanandoa kutumia muda mwingi pamoja wakisherehekea, au kulenga makusudi mwanzo wa mwaka mpya wa shule ambao huanza mapema Septemba nchini humo.

ni wasichana na wanawake warembo sana wanamiliki magari na maisha mazuri pia wameenda shule, lakini cha kushangaza hapa hawa wasichana pamoja na kuwa na vyote hivyo lakini hawaolewi, yaani wote wapo single.Bahati mbaya asilimia kubwa washajijengea sifa kuwa wana nyodo..maringo dharau na kuchagua sana wanaume wa kuwa nao na wengi wanaishi aina ya maisha na tabia ambazo zinawatoa kwnye u wife material kiasi kwamba hawaoleki..hupenda wamtawale mwanamme bahati mbaya mwanamme aliumbwa kutawala so ni ngumu..lkini pia hupenda yale maisha ya kutaka  uhuru,,wawe huru kupiga misele kila kona ..hapo ndio wanaume wengi hushindwa masharti na kuamua kwenda kuoa Wanawake wa maisha ya kawaida tu tunabaki kuulizana..na bila shaka ushaskia misemo kama.KUOLEWA SIYO LAZIMA OR KILA MTU ANA MAAMZI YAKE  OR ME MISS INDEPENDENT SINGLE LADY..but ukweli hakuna mwanamke asopenda ndoa anafikiria kakaa peke yake dunia  hii.
Ndoa ndio kila kitu katika dunia, bila ndoa sidhani kama ungekuwepo leo wewe..Jaribu kufikiria kidogo tu!! 1.Tunahangaika kutafuta pesa na maisha mazuri kwa ajili ya nani kama sio familia zetu ambazo ni mke, mume, watoto na wazazi baadae.2. kama utakuwa tajiri mkubwa mwenye kila kitu je? unadhani bila kuwa na familia utafurahia mali ulizo nazo?
misemo ya kuolewa siyo lazima or kuamua kuishi alone  huja baada ya kukosa kila anachopigania n umri unakua unaenda.. wanakuwa wamepitiwa na watu kama njia ya kuelekea kwenye maisha yao kwani wao namna wanavyokuwa  wanakua hawaoleki or tbia zao
wanajikuta wako selective n hali hii inawafanya wanaume kuwachukua na kuwachezea, no love , just having fun with them at the end  wanaishia kuwa senior bachelors ndio inakuja option ya BORA NIZAE MTOTO WANGU
hapo atatafuta mume wa mtu anatiwa mimba na kuzaa.. . but Nashauri mwanamke hata kama umesoma na una kaz nzuri na una kwako lakin kukaa na mume na kufanya familia  ni baraka hata mbele za Mungu na utabarikiwa daima...kikubwa ACHENI NYODO KWA WANAUME ..wacheni kuchagua ..humtaki huyu unamtaka wa vile n unaemtaka hapatikani or ni fuckboy..badilisha tbi za kuwafanya wanaume wakuone haufai Punguza marafiki wasio na faida..ulevi wa ajabu ajabu...club daily...vaa mavaz yenye kukusitiri maungo ...heshimu kila mtu fanya mazoezi utengeneze shape ya mwili wako vizuri...kula mlo kamili....utapata mume na Mungu atakushishia baraka tele....KAMA KUNA ALIYETENDWA, PIGA MOYO KONDE UTAPATA WAKO WAKUKUPA RAHA NA AKUOE.MWANAMKE AMBAE HAPENDI KUOLEWA HUYO ANAMATIzo TU. HUO NDO UKWELI JICHUNGUZE ILI ULIJUE TATIZO LAKO

Huu ni mtizamo wangu binafsi Single mother kwanza anajua kujali na kuhandle  ..kulingana na aliyoyapitia wanakuwa na IQ kubwa kuhusu maisha ..ukiwa nae hayupo ku ruin maisha yako but anakufanya kuwa better men na kukusapoti katika maendeleo yako na siyo kukurudisha nyuma(mfano since Damond amekua na Zari) Wapo vizuri kifedha na hawana tamaa  ndogo ndogo za kuwafanya wachepuke  ili wajikimu ..wametulia ..kwa namna moja ama nyingine keshapewa somo na alomzalisha na kumterekeza so hana mda wa kupoteza kwa mambo ya kipuuzi..ana mda wa kufocus na maendeleo ya maisha yake na mwanae ..ukiongezeka wewe anakuwa na mda wa kufocos na nyie wawili tuu, akikupenda kakupenda tofauti na hawa madot com.simu wanapiga hawabip ovyo kama hawa wengine..sngle mothers  hatakama utamnunulia kitu kama zawadi ni mpaka upende hawalazimishi 
na anajua majambozi kitandani maana anakula ugali mkubwa na samaki tofauti na madot com wanakula chips kuku  kiuno kipo kipo  wanalala kama mgomba
na chaa ziada hawanaga mda wa kukufatilia fatilia mgongoni(inakera) mana wako bize kutake care mwanae na uhusiano wenu pia...Shikamoo yenu singo mothers

Kama kuna kitu cha kuogopwa kuliko vyote duniani basi ni binadamu.Binadamu yeyote, anaweza kufanya jambo lolote, wakati wowote bila kujali chochote...binadamu ni kiumbe wa kushangaza sana anaweza kucheka nawe machoni lakini rohoni ana lake baya kabisa analokusudia kukufanyia....mara nyingi watu tunaowapenda na kuwasaidia sana nakuwajali kwa kila namna ndio watu ambao huja kutufanyia mambo machafu kabisa. Kwahiyo inapotokea ukakutana na situation kama hii basi uwe makini na kujua kuwa hawa ndo binadamu walivyo. Kuna mengi ya kujilinda nayo ukiwa na watu unaowaamini sana kwakuwa kama wakidhamiria kukufanyia mabaya basi wataanza na vitu vitu vinavyokuhusu kama nguo za ndani, nywele ulizonyoa kucha , pedi zilizotumika nk nk Vema vitu vya jinsi hii ukajitahidi kuvitunza na kuvihifadhi sehemu ambazo hakuna mwingine anayeweza kuvifikia. Wengi wameumizwa kwa njia hii kwahiyo ni vema kuwa makini sana.

1. Pressure a man to propose to you. He may propose to make you happy. But when a man is forced to commit, eventually he repels you.
2. Fall in love with someone who doesn’t want to love you. You will feel used and ignored.
3. Marry someone you do not see yourself having a future with, just because you have a baby together. You will hate marriage, it will be a struggle.
4. Have an affair with a married person. You will feel cheap, you will waste away as the outsider living a lie and eventually you will get dumped because you don’t belong. You were just a temporary fix.
5. Have sex casually. Your emotions will get involved and you’ll attach yourself to people who are not your husband/wife material.
6. Get married quickly because family and society pushed you, marry someone in order to fit in society. You will never be happy in marriage and yet marriage is for a long time.
7. Have sex with a man who is not serious about you. He will make you pregnant and abandon the baby and you.
8. Want a Godly family yet date and marry someone who wants nothing to do with God. You will be frustrated and spiritually dragged.
9. Continue a relationship you know that should end, simply because you lack the courage to break it. You will become a bitter and angry person.
10. Give so many chances to a lover who is not worth it, going back to the same person who treats you badly, excusing their wrongs. Your time will be wasted and your self-esteem will be destroyed.
11. Move into a new relationship before healing from your past love. You will bring the mess of your previous relationship into your new relationship.
12. Ask for advise on how to go about your relationship/marriage from people who don’t believe in love and are angry at love. They will mislead you and cause you to ruin your love.
13. Love someone to get back at your ex. You will hurt the someone you are using and you will find it hard not to hate yourself, your ex has gone.
14. Propose to a woman who is not ready for marriage. She may say yes out of excitement. But man, eventually she will let you down and rebel.
15. Quickly commit to someone before you two adequately know each other. When love is rushed it will crash and you will wonder why you keep jumping from one relationship to another. Slow down.
16. Confuse the love of a friend with the love of a lover then changing that friendship into a romantic relationship. If you two are not meant to be, the romance will end and you will lose a good friend. Just because someone is good to you doesn’t mean you be lovers.
17. Let your parents dictate your love life. Your marriage will be manipulated.
18. Have an affair because your relationship/marriage is boring. You will destroy or devalue the best chance you had at love as you look outside.
19.  Want a mature love yet commit to someone who is childish. You will be stressed.
20. Dating someone who doesn’t want marriage and yet you are thinking long-term. As you build a future with that person, that person will not be serious with you, you are walking alone.
21. Commit to someone you are not compatible with. You will have constant fights, arguments, misunderstandings and wonder why loving is so hard.
22. Invest a lot without commitment. Things will crumble and you will feel empty.

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Wanawake wengi sana wa zama hizi walioolewa ukiongea nao kuhusu waume zao watakwambia hivi, ,,kusema ukweli mimi mume wangu hakuwa chaguo langu kabisa, sema ndiyo hivyo tena Maisha, nilikuwa na boyfriend niliyempenda sana na huyo ndiyo alikuwa chaguo langu lakini hasomeki na hajatulia hivyo nikaamua tu kuseto na huyu jamaa lkn kiukweli Siyo chaguo langu kabisa". Haya maneno nimesikia nayo sana kutoka kwa Wanawake sasa Je, Wanawake huolewa na Watu ambao sio chaguo lao la kwanza? Na kama ni kweli labda ndiyo sababu ya wake za watu kuchepuka sana kwa maana anakuwa hana mapenzi ya kweli na mume wake na siku yule mpenzi wa zamani anayempenmda kiukweli akiomba mchezo atampa tu! Sijawahi kukutana na mwanamke aliyeolewa na akaniambia ya kwamba Mume wake alikuwa first choice...

1-Mwanaume kwa kawaida anapomtamani mwanamke, hamtamani kama yeye kamili, bali humtamani vipande vipande. Hutamani mguu au kifua, midomo au nywele ama hata pua na pengine makalio. Mwanamke kwa mazingira fulani hufurahia jambo hilo, yaani kupendwa huko kwa viraka viraka. Lakini mwanamke hampendi mwanaume kwa viraka viraka bali kama alivyo.
2-Kwa kawaida mwanaume huweza kufurahia tendo la ndoa bila hata kumpenda mwanamke, lakini kwa mwanamke, hiyo ni tofauti, kwani hawezi kufurahia tendo la ndoa kama hajampenda mwanaume. Kwa mwanaume tendo la ndoa halihusiani kabisa na kupenda.

 3-Mwanaume huweza kupata ashki hata kufikia kuamsha sehemu zake za siri kwa kutazama picha tu ya sehemu kama matiti, makalio na hata macho. Kwa hali hiyo, mwanaume hawezi kutofautisha kati ya kitu halisi na kitu bandia linapokuja suala la kujamiiana
. 4-Kwa wanaume kutongoza na kuwapata wanawake wazuri sana, huwa linaonekana kwao kama jambo la sifa na uthibitisho wa udume wao. Kwa hiyo baada ya kutongoza na kukubaliwa, huwa wamemaliza kazi. Suala siyo kutongoza kwa sababu mtu amependa, hapana,ni kwa sababu alitaka kuonesha na kujionyesha
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Kwa wale mabinti waliokuwa na matumaini ya kuolewa mwaka 2015 ndio basi tena mwaka umeshaisha na siku chache hizi zilizosalia matumaini ya kumpata mume ni asilimia 0.009, hivyo ni afadhari kupotezea tu na kuweka matumaini mapya kwa mwaka 2015. Na kama binti una miaka zaidi 32 afadhari sasa uzae tu , tafuta gumegume lolote uzae nalo kwani umri nao unasonga mbele. Wadada mmesherekea ndoa za wenzenu mwaka mzima mpaka unaisha ukiwa na matumaini kwamba ndani ya mwaka huu na wewe utawaalika wenzako, matokea yake yamekuwa negative . Jipange sasa 2016.

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